I am constantly amazed with the quality of people that I meet through online dating.

Again, my hope for you is that I can walk you through this entire process and have the best chance possible to meet your dream partner using online dating as your method. If going to a bar and striking up a conversation with someone is the equivalent of window shopping (the product looks pretty but you don’t really know anything about it’s specifications) then online dating is like shopping on Amazon (in that Amazon knows your shopping habits, what you generally like, and it can give you a full product breakdown with all of the benefits, features, and bonuses of each product compared to others of it’s kind).

This point is especially true for the things that you think are your flaws/weaknesses.

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And if you’re looking for certain niche specific dating websites, there are sites with smaller volumes of users but you can be fairly certain that nearly everyone that you meet through that site will have your unique thing in common. if you have a unique thing about you/that you look for in a partner, are you better off going to the smaller website with higher density of compatible people or building a profile on the larger site (with significantly more users) and just being up front about your unique preference?

Both strategies can work, and it largely depends on how important that thing is for you.

As of the time of me writing this article, I’ve been a professional relationship coach full time for the past seven years.

Whatever your opinions of online dating are, my single, focused goal with this article is to help you find a highly aligned romantic partner in as short of amount of time as possible.

Is there any nuanced way that I could state my request to have you NOT want to get out of bed and claim your cash and house? You can sleep when I teleport you to your new flawless home that has a memory foam, organic bamboo NASA bed (it comes with the house). you don’t need to worry about being so careful or clever with the words in your profile when the person that those words are selling/talking about is one that is of the utmost importance and value to the right sub-section of people who are interested in what YOU specifically have to offer. Your profile is your first impression, and it can either intrigue them and make them want to dig in further, or it can instantly repel them and make them keep scrolling through other romantic options. It means that if you hate your life, you don’t feel fulfilled, and you aren’t proud of yourself and you think that finding a partner will jumpstart the dead battery of your life, then anything that you write in your profile will likely reek of sadness, desperation, and neediness. I’m going to start this section off with a quote, because Honest Abe said it better than I ever could. Instead of hacking away at a tree with a dull blade, Lincoln would ensure that his axe was as sharp as possible so that each and every swing was that much more effective in taking down the tree.

On to point #2…Here’s a bitter pill that some people don’t like to swallow… You have to enjoy your life and generally like yourself as a person, before expecting to be able to write any kind of a compelling online dating profile. For you, taking down the tree is finding an amazing partner via online dating.

Not everyone that you meet/message/interact with online is going to be your next spouse, but there is quite a lot of fun to be had while searching for soul mates online.

While no single method for finding a partner is without it’s drawbacks, the percentage of people who meet their partner via online dating is skyrocketing and there’s a reason for that.

But one thing that comes up, time and time again, that I see my clients stressing out about is the level of detail and optimization that they put into the written part of their profiles.“Does this joke make sense? And you could tell by the look on my face that I had BIG news for you.

That news was that I had ten million dollars for you (no strings attached, no taxes would come off of it…

it was just your money) and I also wanted to gift you your dream house anywhere in the world… I just needed you to get out of bed, walk out into your living room and pick out your dream house in your dream city from a big book of awesome houses that I had.